this phase of life where I was really upset and going through many unanswered
questions, was irritated , frustrated
with the things happening around me and fighting with the people I trusted the
most…. That time I was gifted an envelope filled with practical thoughts I want
to share…..“Sometimes
you were right , sometimes you were wrong , sometimes you were just what you
are, but the choices you have made can’t be right or wrong because they were choices made by your heart”Well this is
what I was made to believe , Because sometimes a thought crosses everyone’s
mind that we are not special , maybe we don’t belong in here.. absolutely right
but who does !? No one is special and no one belongs in here, but the
difference is some people make space for themselves and special for them alone
.. …..
Many a times we think of the people we have in
our life, people who had or made controversies, created trouble in our life,
but why don’t we think of the people who are holding our hand , walking side by
side and trying to be with us … We fight with “n” number of
people since school or college days but do we realise there are 2 people in our
life from the day we are born have been holding our back, pushing us forward,
living their life with us, trying to walk side by side of us… maybe their
attitude and lifestyle is different than ours, maybe they don’t even think to
the level we do, but then think , I can’t understand Russian, so naturally I
won’t check what Russian language is, I mean , unless we don’t make them
understand they will not listen to us. … Maybe they are wrong, maybe we are
wrong but if we don’t communicate we will never understand the true feeling of
our parents … “ Life is a
struggle, and this is the beginning of our struggle, if we are tired in 20th
year , how can we live next 40 years , becoz struggle is gonna increase”
Now coming back to the people who leave
us could be our friends or few family members… everyone tells trying to console
that “People who left you , they don’t know what they have lost” but you know what actually happens “ They
wanted to leave , they left and its good that you are not with them, because
today or tomorrow (in my case yesterday) they would have left anyway, so what
is the point of regretting the loss of stone when you can have diamonds” ..“People say
life has many phases, they say life has many ups and downs so hold on with
life, I say life is something what you choose it to be, you make phases in it
and you make ups and downs and no one else does” ….
So the next
time you want to blame someone and cry hard , read this blog throw out the
negativity and create a new beginning …. Becoz there is no limit to start
something new …. Cheers !

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